Legal Abuse. Your WORST Nightmare.

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Legal Abuse. Your WORST Nightmare.

Having left my abusive marriage I have suffered legal abuse to the extreme. Years of it, and recently I experienced it at TRAUMA level degrees. You leave your abuser and then where do they turn to further abuse…….the courts. It has now happened to me in Orange County with Atty Bonnie Rosen and Judge Naughton and in Riverside County with Judge Kira Klatchko. The same narcissist, my ex abusive husband, at the helm. (Believe me he was at the helm as it was HIS SIGNATURE on the document) (He has made living off of signing others names, mine more than once) When this occurs, you do feel like you are in an alternative reality. A nightmare you can not escape from. And it is a published fact of the occurrences in courts. Judges are supposed to be “HONORABLE”. The courts are supposed to be fair and just. The re-abusive nature in courts THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR. NONE. It is THE JUDGES JOB to not get it incorrect. A courtroom is a narcissists heaven. They thrive in this atmosphere. IT IS A PROBLEM. Women that have contacted me via my blog in the OC are going through the exact same abuse in the court in the OC, with THE SAME Atty Bonnie Rosen and Judge Naughton, that I went through 13 years ago. I have told them as well to contact the FBI as it is corruption plain and simple.

~ My abuser came to court equipped with an attorney. His lawyer was a tall man with an olive complexion and an easy self-confidence that he showcased by strolling through the courtroom, addressing the clerks by name and punctuating their interactions with a rolling belly laugh. My abuser’s attorney had all the papers in order. I, attorneyless, did not.

When the judge entered she told me I needed a lawyer, and offered me a continuance I didn’t know I could request. I took it, thinking it would give me a little more time before my son would officially belong to the man who had terrorized me when I was little more than a child myself. I knew the continuance would ultimately make no difference; there was no attorney I could afford.

This type of legal divide is not uncommon. According to the American Psychological Association, abusive fathers file for sole custody more often than fathers who have no history of domestic violence. Since 99 percent of domestic violence victims also face some form of financial abuse, abusers tend to have more money and thus more access to legal resources than the women fleeing their abuse. That gives them an advantage in the courts that makes them just as likely, or even more likely, to gain custody.

Litigation gave him freedom to pick at the most private things about me.
These prolonged legal battles can turn into an abuse of their own. Court-related abuse—sometimes called litigation abuse—is a widely under-recognized phenomenon in which a perpetrator of intimate partner violence will use family law court as a means of maintaining contact with their victims, even when legal protections would otherwise forbid it. Women and their children who have endured horrific abuses, including sexual molestation and rape, can be forced to interact repeatedly with their assailants in the courtroom upon escaping the relationships.

THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR A JUDGE THAT ALLOWS THIS MANIPULATION IN THEIR COURTROOM. I told the TRUTH………… I SPELLED IT OUT. AND YET, Judge Kira Klatchko perpetuated and allowed continued abuse of me. Could I have won if I abused back (?)…………….YOU DON’T WIN. I took the HIGH ROAD.

Ps. Judge Kira Klatchco sure didn’t offer me the opportunity to get an attorney nor a continuance, nor did that NON JUDGE in Palm Springs who took it one step further and DENIED me an attorney.


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  2. Rachel Mabry says:

    I have a friend who was going through a similar experience: abusive marriage, narcissistic husband, and filed for divorce. They had 6 children (4 together) and he took them from her, filed a restraining order, and left with all of the children. She was left in a completely desperate and hopeless state of mind. On Friday, she committed suicide. I am devastated. Her youngest baby isn’t even 1 yet. Bonnie Zeldin Rosen was his attorney also.
    Thanks for letting me share.

    • Tracy Zona says:

      I am crushed and so sorry. So many of us that have suffered have tried over and over again….for someone, anyone to understand how dangerous Bonnie Zeldin Rosen is in a family court. I know her EVIL first hand. She has altered my life negatively through, fraud, greed , and abuse that is inexcusable in a family court. Bonnie Zeldin Rosen has repeatedly re-abused victims, taken children from mothers, and left abuse victims without resources and no way out of their HELL. Bonnie Zeldin Rosen and her daughter Hayley Rosen take full advantage of such a dangerous, volatile, situation as domestic abuse. Even more EVIL is the fact Bonnie Zeldin Rosen gets off on it with her law license. I feel like I have failed as I have not been able to break the corrupt system for fifteen years.

  3. chrystie says:

    My friend is going through the same thing right now with her ex husband taking her kids away from her and Bonie Rosen is his attorney. She has been battling this for over a year and a half with this attorney.

    • Tracy Zona says:

      I am DISGUSTED to hear this, yet again. No one has put an end to Bonnie Zeldin Rosen and her nefarious acts. She has for years destroyed families and children at Lamoreaux (UNJUSTICE) Center. She destroys children at any age for profit. SHE IS EVIL BEYOND ALL COMPREHENSION and has violated ethics if not the law/corruption in her pursuit of crimes with a law license. Can you send me a contact phone number…..please….as I have a long list of her EVIL in a courtroom? As you see…Michael Avenatti another criminal lawyer was arrested again yesterday. There is HOPE!

  4. Debra says:

    Question….would you want Bonnie Rosen on your side if you were trying to gain custody of your kids and get fair alimony and child support?

    • Tracy Zona says:

      No…..she has no interest in the well being of any child. You would be selling your soul and child’s soul. Plenty of lawyers exist in the OC that are not as EVIL that can get you FAIR results. She will steal from her CLIENT. ANYONE. PLUS she is BATSHIT CRAZY. If you WANT what is best for your child I would keep her FAR AWAY.

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