I sat there in her courtroom after being legally hit, terrorized, and harassed for nine months straight. A team of lawyers after me…..five to be exact. Against just me. I had been in a family court before against my abusive husband who controlled every aspect of my life. No attorney, oh you can’t afford one, as your abusive ex controls all the finances. I didn’t have access to five dollars from a twenty year marriage unless he gave it to me. And he demanded sex for it. Not only does he control the finances but now that you dared to leave he is trying to ruin you 24/7. It’s been thirteen years since I left and he is still trying to ruin me. I endured nine months of pure hell while he and his flying monkeys terrorized me. But I stood up to him. Here I was again, this time in Judge Kira Klatchko’s courtroom. I watched one , two, three, four people go before my hearing. Judge Kira Klatchko kept saying ” I watched your demeanor.” And the one with the “demeanor” she watched that she did not approve of…..got it. And then it was my turn. I cried. I guess I haven’t healed yet, Judge Kira Klatchko, as I had been going through trauma for over twenty eight years which was enhanced in the last nine months. I cried. Even though I told the ABSOLUTE TRUTH. The TRUTH was PROVED by a criminal arrest but I still got it from Judge Kira Klatchco….. but it’s too late…..the long term damage was done. The damage extending another three years….. a family ripped apart by domestic abuse. Judge Kira Klatchko wanted to know “if my blog was down?”. Hmmmm. Why? Why would Judge Kira Klatchko want my blog down? I did fabulous, beneficial to potential victims,, and TRUTHFUL investigative research and gathering information on my blog. I am not healed and I cried in Judge Kira Klatchko’s courtroom. My demeanor was not approved of by her after suffering twenty eight plus years of domestic abuse. (IT LASTS A LIFETIME: BEWARE) I TOLD THE TRUTH, which she knows, but by her I was treated as just another crazy abused nut job woman in her courtroom. *** It is a fact abused individuals are often re victimized in court by attorneys and judges. BUT, SHE GOT IT WRONG. I have not healed from trauma and abuse fully but I AM STRONG and I allow NO ONE TO DEFINE ME.
THIS IS MY DIARY ON A LIFE OF DOMESTIC ABUSE……..
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